very interesting interview with Oscar Muriu, pastor of the Nairobi Chapel. it is part of Andy Crouch's Christian Vision Project. here's the link to the whole thing.
Is church leadership different in slum areas than it is in educated areas?
For me, planting churches among the university educated is easy. They
are like me. I only need to be myself to be like them. The challenge
comes when I cross the social divide of status and wealth. That's been
hard.
My hope had been that we could be a multi-economic church, where the
poor, the rich, and the middle class were together. But it's not
turning out that way. Partly because of the location, partly because we
communicate in English, partly because of what the different groups
understand. When I deal with university students and the educated
elite, I'm using statistical evidence, I'm quoting historic figures and
world leaders, I'm citing books and movies.
Well, that doesn't work with the poor. They do not understand
statistical references; they do not know who Einstein was; they do not
understand a reference to a movie; they've rarely seen a movie. So the
language of the educated elite excludes them. What they understand,
what persuades them, are real-life stories and parables like Jesus told.
We have tried to develop a multi-economic church, but I've not been able to do that....
Besides bringing an agenda, what tends to distinguish the American personality?
Americans have two great things going for them culturally. One is that
Americans are problem-solvers. Every time I come to the U.S., I like to
spend a couple hours in a Wal-Mart. I find solutions to problems that I
never thought of!
The rest of the world, even Europe, isn't so intent on solving
inconveniences. We tend to live with our problems. In America you
almost never go into a house where the sinks have two taps, a cold
water tap and a hot water tap, because that means you have to mix the
water in the sink to get it to the right temperature. You have these
single faucets that mix the water before it comes out. It makes perfect
sense. But that's a problem the rest of the world wouldn't even think
to solve.
Americans don't easily live with a problem—they want to solve the
problem and move on. The rest of the world is more willing to live with
the problems.
The second great thing for Americans is that your educational system
teaches people to think and to express themselves. So a child who talks
and asserts himself in conversation is actually awarded higher marks
than the one who sits quietly.
How are these traits seen, say, in Africa?
Those two things that are such great gifts in the home context become a
curse when you go into missions. Americans come to Africa, and they
want to solve Africa. But you can't solve Africa. It's much too complex
for that. And that really frustrates Americans.
And the assertiveness you are taught in school becomes a curse on
the field. I often say to American missionaries, "When the American
speaks, the conversation is over." The American is usually the most
powerful voice at the table. And when the most powerful voice gives its
opinion, the conversation is over.
So what should talkative, problem-solving Americans do?
I tell Americans: "We're going into this meeting. Don't say anything!
Sit there and hold your tongue." When you sit around a table, the
people speaking always glance at the person they believe is the most
powerful figure at the table. They will do that with you when you're
the only American. And at some point, they will ask you: "What do you
think?"
Don't say anything. If you say anything, reflect back with something
like "I have heard such wisdom at this table. I am very impressed." And
leave it at that. Affirm them for the contribution they have made.
Don't give your own opinion.
Americans find that almost impossible. They do not know how to hold
their tongue. They sit there squirming, because they're conditioned to
express their opinions. It's a strength at home, but it becomes a curse
on the field.
In a sense western missions has been marked by that. But isn't it
strange that Jesus not only entered society incarnate at the weakest
point, as a defenseless child who needed the care of his host
community, but he also told his disciples: "Do not go with money; do
not go with a second pair of shoes; go in a stance of vulnerability; be
dependent on the communities you visit"? Isn't it interesting that for
30 years he doesn't speak out; doesn't reveal himself; he remains
quiet, and only after 30 years of listening and learning the culture
does he begin to speak.